There's no doubt right now that many people can feel things shifting and changing not only on their individual journeys, but the world as whole.
Often you will hear about timeline "jumps" or "shifts" and there's a sense of excitement around the idea. But people don't often realize the "gapping" or separation that happens between themselves and others in their lives when this starts to happen in their lives. So, let's get into it.
Everything is energy, a frequency, a vibration, and one thing you can count on is that the Universe will give you what you ARE, not necessarily what you WANT. So many people talk about the change in relationship dynamics they experience when on their healing journey. It leaves them confused and questioning things, wondering why they "lose" so many people along their path.
As you heal, you shift your perspective, you challenge conditioning and belief systems, confront and heal wounds, and you gain awareness that leads you to take new action in your life. And when you combine all these things together you change your energetic vibration. As you change on an individual level, it's like an energetic "call" goes out to those around you to raise there's too. If they don't rise to the challenge, because we all have free will, things begin to change in your relationship with them.
Often it starts out subtle, you find that you might not have as much is common as you once did with someone. You find that you aren't interested in making "small talk" or engaging in the gossip or drama. Then the gapping, as Child of Balance calls it, gets bigger. The "distance" in your vibration and theirs becomes further and further apart. You may not talk to them or see them as often or in those more interpersonal relationships you may experience tension, irritation, and even projections from the other party as you become more and more "unrelatable". Some people will refer to this as when your "light" shines on the "shadows" of others. Or comments like "you become a trigger by simply existing."
When the gap becomes too great there tends to be a precipice, or what I call "in the blink of an eye" moment when everything drastically changes when a big enough "shift" in one's energy takes place, and your entire life gets shaken up. Your friends circle changes overnight, dynamics with co-workers take a hard turn, separation within families or "soul families" take place and for some the end of long-term relationships end.
Some of these shifts and shake ups can be incredibly difficult as we don't start out on our spiritual journey thinking we are going to "lose" people we love and care about along the way. We think that those we are close to are coming with us, until we come to the awareness in this journey that we all don't have the same "finish line". With this awareness comes that call to fully surrender, to let go. To "trust the process" and let the realignment in our lives take place. But, so many get into a war with themselves...where their humanness starts to fight their soul and where they're being pulled and called to because of the pain they associate with losing people.
If you're someone who struggles with this, first of, know that it's perfectly ok to grieve people who are still living or the idea that something didn't turn out as you had hope or expected. That's part of showing yourself grace. But also learn to shift your perspective and realize that in order to draw the things to you that you want to align with, you must be willing to let go of the things that don't. If you continue to hold on to things, people, and situations that don't align with what you are trying to move towards in your life, this is where that Law of Resonance comes into play and the Universe will give you what you are vs. what you truly want. Move into the "knowing" that nothing that is for you will ever miss you or pass you by. Even if it feels like certain things may be coming to a close in one area of your life, it might just be "until we meet again" because we ALL have the opportunity to choose differently every moment of every day.
Things are beginning to materialize in new ways for the collective in VERY intense ways right now. Stay in the present moment, don't get caught up in overthinking things. Allow things to shift and move in your life, even if that means letting go of things, people, or situations. You aren't who you used to be, and you are being asked by Spirit, God, Creator, the Universe, whatever your understanding is, to "align accordingly" in what feels right for YOU.